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[icedark_elf]

My grandma died last night. Those of you I talk with regularly, I'll be off the next day or so. I feel guilty. My mom and I were talking last night how it might be better if she passed away, she was so bad off. Now she is, and it hurts.

Edit: Okay, at parents house. Turns out the funeral isn't going to be until Wednesday. *rubs face* So, I may be on before then, or maybe not.

Big group hug to everyone, and I'll start replying now.

Comments

[dragonscholar.livejournal.com]

Hang in there :/

[icedark-elf.livejournal.com]

*hugs* Thanks, it's good to hear. How goes the move?

[lanerose]

Awww honey.... ::hugs:: Sorry to hear that!

[icedark-elf.livejournal.com]

*hugs back* I'm still not really crying. I'll do enough of that at the funeral. Thanks for the hug, though.

[bard-linn.livejournal.com]

*hugs* That's always hard. Remember, at least she's no longer in pain. My grandmother was in the same situation.

[icedark-elf.livejournal.com]

*clings* It hurts, but I remember how she sounded on the phone for my birthday, and I'm glad she doesn't hurt anymore.

[forgottenlover.livejournal.com]

::hugs:: See you when the grief is less then, blessings

[icedark-elf.livejournal.com]

*hugs tight* Thanks. I'll most likely be on in a day or so. We're leaving Monday to go to the funeral, though.

[forgottenlover.livejournal.com]

I hope you feel better when you return and not worse

[sparklemagpie.livejournal.com]

*hugs* I'm so sorry sweetheart. Been there with the sick relatives. Don't feel guilty, wishing for her to pass on when she really is ill and in pain is a caring thing, not a mean thing. <3

[icedark-elf.livejournal.com]

It still feels bad when we say it, then she does. Like we called Death to her. *hugs back hard* Thanks for the support.

[qraccoon.livejournal.com]

Hugs!
You take it easy on yourself. Your grandma is in a better place now.

[icedark-elf.livejournal.com]

Thanks. I'll hug you next time I see you, which won't be Tuesday since I'll be out of town. Next Sunday, though.... I worry about my grandpa. They were married 52 years, and he's worn himself to the bone taking care of her.

[mimi-sardinia.livejournal.com]

*Hugs*

[icedark-elf.livejournal.com]

*hugs back*

[jen0va99.livejournal.com]

So sorry to hear that... *hugs* My condolences to you and your family.

(Apologies for not using a more appropriate icon. Extras account ran out.)

[icedark-elf.livejournal.com]

Thank you. *hugs back*

(I like your icon. It made me smile)

[cephy.livejournal.com]

Awk-- my condolances.

... also, for what it may be worth, I thought much the same just before my grandpa died. I think it's a natural response to seeing someone in pain like that, even if it makes one feel like ass when it actually happens.

*hugs*

[icedark-elf.livejournal.com]

*nods* It's scary. I know it's something we covered in Psych class, but it's hard for it to happen in reality when you wish something. Scary superpower time. *shakes head*

*hugs back tight* Thanks for the care, though. I really appreciate it.

[renquestor.livejournal.com]

*hugs* Again, sorry to hear that. Hang in there.

[icedark-elf.livejournal.com]

*hugs back* Thanks. I might be at the game after all, since we're not leaving for the funeral until Monday. Expect me to cry on you, though. And maybe seanmonster

[renquestor.livejournal.com]

That's not a problem. Hey, what are friends for. Oh, BTW, you have a song in your email. I think you might appreciate it. It might make you think some happier thoughts.

[seanmonster.livejournal.com]

I'm good for stuff like that, kiddo. I had a kinda simlar thing happen with my Granpa, but I'd rather not go into it in a reply post.

I'll save the hugs 'till I see you.